I’m pregnant – again!

Deja-vu!

It’s been 8 weeks since we suffered a miscarriage with our third pregnancy yet, here I am, announcing that I’m pregnant – again! To say I was shocked at the result of the pregnancy test is an understatement.  After the miscarriage I assumed I’d bleed for a while and then perhaps have to wait for a whole cycle to pass until I began to ovulate again.  This certainly hasn’t been the case.  By my reckoning I’m about 5-6 weeks pregnant – give or take a few days which means I basically conceived within a few weeks of my miscarriage.  I’ve read online this can happen, and some people even say you’re more fertile after a miscarriage – don’t ask me to explain as I have no idea! I was concerned about not having a period between my miscarriage and falling pregnant again but after plenty of research it seems the only reason this is advised against is because of problems dating the pregnancy.

I’ve figured out I must be due in May 2016, but I don’t have a clue on the date.  I’m hoping once I’ve seen the midwife she will suggest booking an early scan to check the measurements and dates.  Has anyone else had a miscarriage, fallen pregnant immediately and had a successful pregnancy? Looking for reassurance guys!

It’s taking a lot of effort to stay positive and not assume this pregnancy will end in miscarriage.  We’ve known about the pregnancy for a week now, just Matt and I.  For the first few days I REALLY wasn’t ready to tell anyone.  Stupidly I thought perhaps not telling people would make this baby live….make it grow.  But now, now I’ve had the queasiness (the smell of melted cheese…..VOM), the extreme tiredness, the craters that appear on my jaw overnight and the lightheaded, dizzy headaches I feel like it’s my bodies way of telling me this baby is the real deal so get resting up! Matt’s already sick of finding the coffee in the fridge and he also gets the privilege of cleaning the cats litter tray. I feel remarkably different to how I did in July/August.  I think the few symptoms I did have with that pregnancy were just mild symptoms which hadn’t really come to anything as the baby was barely 4 weeks old in gestation.

It’s hard not to get excited though isn’t it?!

I was shopping for a bathroom bin in Waitrose the other day (yeh, we have really posh, gold plated bins in our house) and I turned around and spotted a Pink Lining bag on the shelf – on the reduced shelf no less! I grabbed it and checked the price tag….£4.99!!! I assumed there was something wrong with it as the full price should have been £35, but there wasn’t.  I think, having checked their website, that it’s an old design but still! I couldn’t help myself and before I knew what was happening I’d bought a white bin and a baby bag for a baby which was no bigger then a grain of rice. I guess you could say I was in the ‘speculate to accumulate’ frame of mind.

I really want to keep a journal of my pregnancy here on my blog, completely for myself but if you want to read it please feel free to do so.  I love pregnancy and all things babies and love to watch/read other peoples diaries of their pregnancies. I’ll be uploading my first proper update this Friday.  If you want to check out the pregnancy test video, I’ve embedded it below.

Thought for this week: Positive Mind, Positive Vibes, Positive Life

If you’d like to read our birth story click here!

 

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4 Comments

  1. September 29, 2015 / 7:49 pm

    Wonderful news huge congrats! I know Tara at mums space got pregnant with her baby boy Alfie just a few weeks after her miscarriage, worth chatting to her 🙂 xx

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      September 30, 2015 / 7:46 am

      OOOOoooo thanks Emily – that’s great to know! xx

  2. January 6, 2016 / 6:25 pm

    I realise this post is a few months old but I’m glad I just spotted it via Twitter. We had an early miscarriage around two weeks ago. I thought I was eight weeks and had an emergency scan after I started bleeding. They could only find a five week pregnancy sac then a few days later miscarried. Then had another scan and that gave me the ok that I miscarried naturally Great timing just before Christmas!!!!

    The nurses told us to wait before trying again until I’ve had a period but I really don’t want to wait! I’ve read online on numerous occasions that you are able to get pregnant in between your miscarriage and period. It’s just a little more difficult to work out the dates. So I’ve a glimmer of hope that a fellow blogger has written about it and has gone through that.

    Basically, thank you for sharing this and I’m going to have a read of your current pregnancy updates

    Laura x

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      January 6, 2016 / 6:28 pm

      My miscarriage was a total shock. We carried on as best we could, which included carrying on trying. My miscarriage happened at home without any medical help so no-one advised me to wait before continuing to try. Now I know my dates for this pregnancy I know I conceived within two weeks of miscarrying. I was worried it would make the pregnancy weaker but I’m 20+3 now so apparently not! I’m so sorry to read your news, I’d not wish it on anyone. I hope reading some of my posts help xx

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